For Dr. Esther Park, the path to becoming a psychologist wasn’t linear—it was deeply personal. Like many children of immigrants, she grew up with a clear expectation: become a doctor or a lawyer. “For a while, I believed I would be a pediatrician,” she recalls. “But on the first day of organic chemistry in college, I quickly realized medical school wasn’t for me.”
What followed was a quiet but powerful shift. Park gravitated toward psychology, initially without a clear end goal. “Looking back, I can see that I was drawn to it for deeply personal reasons,” she says. “There was something I wanted to understand about myself, my upbringing, and the dynamics that shaped me.” That curiosity eventually led her to earn a doctorate in clinical psychology and continue her training at the Denver Institute for Psychoanalysis.
Dr. Park describes her identity as a 1.5 generation Korean American as central to her work. “I understand, intimately, what it feels like to belong and to feel ‘other’—sometimes in the very same moment,” she explains. Holding both Western and Korean values has created what she calls a “dual identity,” shaped by autonomy and self-definition on one hand, and sacrifice, duty, and collective identity on the other.
This duality brings both gratitude and grief. “I carry gratitude for the immense sacrifices my parents made… But I also carry a lot of grief. The grief of recognizing that my freedom is, in many ways, built on their limitation.” These layered emotions inform how she approaches her patients—with nuance, curiosity, and compassion. “I don’t see mental health symptoms in isolation. I see them within cultural systems, generational trauma, and the psychological weight of belonging.”
Dr. Park emphasizes that many mental health challenges—like anxiety, depression, and perfectionism—are often rooted in intergenerational experiences. “We do not start from scratch,”she says. “We are shaped not only by our own experiences, but by the emotional histories of the generations before us.” In immigrant families, survival stories often translate into internal pressures: achieve, don’t fail, make it worth it.
“These messages are often rooted in love,” she adds, “and yet, they can become internal pressures that shape identity in profound ways.”
Starting her own private practice was another intentional step in reclaiming autonomy. “I wanted the freedom to build a practice that reflected my values,” Park says. “My parents immigrated to this country without the luxury of time…Because of that, I’ve come to see time as one of the most valuable forms of wealth.”
Her work, grounded in psychodynamic and psychoanalytic therapy, goes beyond symptom relief. It invites deeper self-exploration and lasting change. “Many of the individuals I work with are interested in understanding themselves at a deeper level—not only to improve their own lives, but to change patterns that may have existed across generations.”
It gives Dr. Park hope that “more individuals are beginning to ask deeper questions about themselves—not just what they feel, but why.” She hopes more people can see self-understanding not as a weakness, but as courage.
Esther Park, Psy.D.
Cedar Psychology
56 Inverness Dr E, Suite 102,
Englewood, CO 80112
Tel: 720-669-3317
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